Feeling, bored, lonely, or just in need of some quiet me-time? Here are 41 engaging things you can do alone to really love solitude and make the most of your lone hours.
Growing up, my family moved every three years or so because of my father’s job, but I found good people wherever I went, and I rarely ever felt alone.
Enter college and all those people became inaccessible to me.
I was meeting a lot of new people, but it was hard to connect with any of them.
Oh, the joy of adulthood.
It was at this point that I really started getting scared at the idea of being left alone.
But then someway, somehow, I stumbled upon the idea of self-care, and that led me to the art of enjoying my own company.
Here’s what I’ve realized in my beautiful three-year-long journey of embracing self-love:
- Solitude gives you peace and tranquility.
- If you can be happy alone, you’ll be happy with anywhere with anyone.
- It is in your own presence that you discover the best parts of yourself.
Perhaps you have many people in your life or are someone who is by themselves a lot.
Either way, knowing how to spend time alone is a skill that everyone can benefit from mastering.
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In this post, you’ll find 41 fulfilling things to do when you’re alone.
Turn to this list whenever you find yourself alone and don’t know what to do, and make the most of your me-time.
41 Things You Can Do Alone
1. Light candles and take a bubble bath with some soothing music. We’re all self-care enthusiasts here, baby.
2. Start keeping a song diary in which you write down lyrics to your favorite songs to sing along to. Teenage flashbacks, anyone?
3. Challenge yourself to cook a dish you’ve never attempted before.
4. Pick up that book you’ve been meaning to read for ages.
5. Learn a new language on the app Duolingo.
6. Pack yourself some lunch and eat at the park.
7. Find a dark spot on your rooftop, lie down, and marvel at the beauty of the night sky.
8. Explore a farmer’s market and bring home some fresh seasonal produce.
9. Take a free online course on whatever topic interests you. This blog is a result of me signing up for free blogging e-courses!
10. Go on a solo hike to enjoy the peace and quiet of nature.
11. Grab a book or your laptop, and spend some time with a cup of coffee at a local cafe.
12. Listen to an audiobook while doing your laundry.
13. Read about self-care and discover new ways to reduce stress and anxiety.
14. Curl up on the couch and enjoy a marathon of your favorite movies or a new series.
15. Challenge yourself with a jigsaw puzzle, crossword puzzle, or sudoku.
16. Visit a bookstore and grab books from different genres.
17. Let your creativity run free with an adult coloring book and colored pencils.
18. Bake some brownies. They’re quick, easy, and oh-so-indulging.
19. Rewatch one of your favorite movies from childhood.
20. Start your own blog. You can choose to keep it private as an online journal or keep it open to the world.
21. Research a historical or scientific unsolved mystery.
22. Learn a new dance routine online and practice in your living room.
23. Choose a workout that interests you — like yoga, pilates, or HIIT — and follow along with an online instructor.
24. Head to your favorite restaurant for a tasty meal.
25. Go for a long walk and stay tuned into a fun podcast throughout it.
26. Choose an area of your home that needs attention and give it a thorough cleaning (the bathroom is always a good choice).
27. Organize a neglected drawer or cabinet. If you have loads of time to spare, then spruce up your wardrobe.
28. Relax to a guided meditation on YouTube.
29. Pamper yourself with homemade sugar scrubs, face masks, and hair treatments.
30. 30. Try crocheting! I never thought it’s something I’d do but here we are. My skills are nowhere near perfect, but I’m having so much fun with it.
31. Start a nature journal to muse on the wonders of nature. You can also collect unique fallen leaves and flowers in it.
32. Explore a new genre of music. Familiar is good, but it’s exciting to step outside the familiar and discover new artists.
33. Do some yoga and gentle stretching to relax your mind and body.
34. Write fan fiction on Wattpad.
35. Learn new stuff about the universe. From black holes to time dilation, there’s a whole lot to explore.
36. Write a fan email to your favorite author, musician, or artist. You might be surprised if you get a reply!
37. Learn calligraphy so that you can write beautiful quotes and poems, or use your skills to beautify your journal if you keep one.
38. Make yourself a cup of hot coffee and enjoy with something sweet (like a cupcake).
39. Give yourself a mani-pedi with home ingredients.
40. Research your family history and learn about your ancestors.
41. Work on an interesting side hustle like freelancing, blogging, or designing printables.
(See: 15 Hobbies That Make Money And Are Excellent For A Side Income)
Feel Free To Play Mix And Match
Don’t be afraid to combine these activities to create a unique new experience.
For example, you could go for a hike in nature and collect materials for a nature journal entry.
Or you could grab a cup of coffee while enjoying the night sky.
Honestly, there’s no end to the list of things that one can do alone.
You just have to be willing to get to know yourself and spend time with yourself by choice.
Doing the right thing at the right time can make all the difference to your me-time and turn your lone hours into something you look forward to every day.
Take it easy, and have fun exploring these 41 activities during your solo hours!
Read next: How To Romanticize Your Everyday Life – 10 Simple Tips
What was your favorite tip from this post? Let me know in the comment box. It’s always fun to hear from you.
I loved the article. Thanks. It was very helpful to me.some of these things I already do. I like your other ideas also.
Happy to be of help, Shirley! Thank you so much for your time.